Perhaps that is why, in His bewildering mercy, God sometimes shatters our fondest dreams, or at least allows them to be shattered. (Whether He is the cause or merely allows it to happen, the result is the same. And in the midst of the pain, the distinction doesn’t always seem important)
In His sovereignly run universe, the unthinkable sometimes happens–the nightmare we thought we’d never have to face. And no relief comes, sometimes not for years. More frequently than untested Christians expect, God removes the one source of joy and meaning that we were counting on to make our lives worth living, and replaces it with nothing.
These are the words from Larry Crabb’s “Creating a True Spiritual Community” that I was reading as my phone rang a few weeks ago. I received news that my grandmother was being taken to the hospital in an ambulance. No one could tell me what had happened or what they were doing.
I’m a thinker and sometimes I think that I think too much. What’s going to happen? What am I going to do? What can I do? But the truth is – God has already thought it through. He already knows where it’s leading and where it came from. He knows. We always hope that the outcome will be good, that we will like His plan, but that’s not always the case. We have to remember those wise words of Ann Voskamp:
And if not, He is still good.